HIM & HIM

Privacy

Updated November 2, 2026 · Operated by Mark Thompson

Information used by this service

Signing in with ChatGPT provides an account identifier, email address, and an available display name. Your dating profile contains the name, age, city, biography, interests, connection preferences, visibility choice, and photo you choose to save. The service also stores likes, blocks, direct messages, reports, and membership records so these features work across visits.

What other members can see

Your visible dating profile and photo can be viewed by signed-in members who have a visible profile. Your sign-in email is not included in the member directory. Direct messages are available to the two participants while they have a mutual match and are permitted to connect. Blocking, pausing a profile, or a safety suspension prevents further access to profiles, photos, and conversations between affected members. People may keep screenshots or information you have already shared.

Payments and service providers

Stripe handles card details and subscriptions. The site stores references and payment status to associate a membership with your account; card numbers are not stored in the site's member database. ChatGPT provides hosting and sign-in services, and the application uses Cloudflare database and file storage. Those providers process information necessary to deliver their services under their own policies.

Reports and safety reviews

Reports include the reporting and reported account identifiers, names at the time of reporting, a reason, the description submitted, and review status. The site operator can access these reports through an owner-only review area. Reports are not shown to the reported member. Reports are not monitored around the clock and do not automatically notify the operator by email. Use blocking to stop contact here while a report awaits review.

Your controls and deletion

Open My profile to edit your information, remove a photo, pause visibility, manage blocks, or permanently delete your dating profile. Profile deletion removes your profile, uploaded photo, likes, matches, and conversations from this service, including the messages visible to other participants. It does not delete your ChatGPT account. Billing records, safety reports, restrictions, and blocks set by other members may remain for payment administration and safety review. Deleted content may remain in provider backups or operational logs according to provider retention practices.

Deleting or pausing a profile does not cancel a Stripe subscription. Use Manage billing to cancel renewal and keep the confirmation.

Questions and requests

Contact the site operator at markdavidthompsonjr@gmail.com about privacy, retained safety reports, or a suspension review. Include only the information needed to identify your request; do not send passwords or card details. We may need to verify account ownership before handling a request.

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